“Reaching out to embrace the random, reaching out to embrace whatever may come,”
Tool
Apologies for the radio silence over the last couple of weeks. For reasons I don’t want to go into on this blog we had to make an unexpected dash to the UK. This, as you all know, coincided with increasing covid infections and death rates both in the UK and Italy, leading to increased Covid restrictions. Suffice to say we have spent an awfully long time in quarantine in various locations and have been tested multiple times, all negative thankfully.
The day before our flight to the UK I learned that I had been successful in getting two new exam preparation courses in local schools from January. With everything else going on at the time it felt very far away and I was more concerned about making those involved aware of my need to be in the UK than allowing myself time to be pleased about them. Our already in Covid limbo life became more surreal in the UK and due to the covid situation we were not able to see any friends or leave the house much. However, we are back despite flight bans, cancellations, new restrictions and announcements from two different governments and not forgetting Brexit. Now it feels possible to start this year, albeit a little delayed. If covid has taught us anything it’s to be wary of thinking anything we plan is certain and to be grateful for what you have.
“What good is warmth of summer without the coldness of winter to make it sweeter?”
John Steinbeck
The immediate future is full of uncertainty including where we will live and work. For the time being we are forced to live in the present, which is no bad thing. I now have three courses to teach for 2 different language schools and 9 private students, which rose to include another 3 potential students this week, so my decision to go self-employed during this period seems to have been a good one but with Al still on cassa integrazione (furlough) it is not enough and it really can’t become enough to keep us here while restaurants remain closed or only partially open. We take each day as it comes, but we need to give some thought to what happens next and what we can do today to bring that closer.
It was always in the plan for me to return to work in Financial Services and to be honest I thought that the time would have come before now. I have made progress with the novel, although I haven’t finished it yet, a couple of other writing projects including this blog and I have built up a good reputation as an English teacher with an increasing number of students and courses. However, I have updated my CV and my Linked In profile and begun the search for a new role. Ideally, I will find one here in Italy or one that allows me to work remotely from here but all options are on the table.
I am proud of what we have achieved in taking the gamble, seizing the opportunity and coming here with a van full of belongings and a headful of dreams. Although 2020 and 2021 will not be the years that we hoped that they would be, we have grown (and not just the waistline) and embraced this experience, showing us what we are capable of, what we have and what we can do. Life has thrown some curve balls at all of us and it’s up to us what we do with them. I know that I have used this quote before but it feels as though it’s been the quote of the year.
“It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.”
Epitectus
To this end to make better use of his time while he is on furlough Al has set up a food blog to offer professional tips to home cooks and it can be found here.
We will be out of quarantine on the 1st of February so stand by for more photos of the ever lovely Bologna and surroundings as we become able to visit them again, as well as further updates on what the next step in our adventure will be as events unfold before us.
